The decision to move a parent to skilled nursing can be emotional, but it’s also the first step toward getting them quality care from a team that truly understands how to help. The peace of mind of knowing your loved one is living in a place designed to meet their needs is invaluable. But once your loved one is living in their new home, how often should you visit?
Regular visits are essential, but finding the right schedule can be challenging. You don’t want to overwhelm your loved one with too many visits, but you also don’t want to visit too rarely and leave them feeling isolated. Striking the right balance is key, but this varies from family to family.
The Benefits of Visiting a Parent in Senior Living
Visiting your parent in skilled nursing is more than just showing up. It’s about making a conscious effort to strengthen your bond with someone you love. These visits are the key to maintaining a powerful connection with your parent.
Socialization is one of the most important parts of a high quality of life. It significantly boosts mental and emotional well-being while fighting off isolation and loneliness—and all the negative symptoms these factors can cause.
Regular visits with a parent in skilled nursing help to:
- Show your love and support, reassuring your parent that you’re there for them
- Keep the lines of communication open, making it easy to chat about the good and not-so-good happenings
- Share memorable moments, bringing stories and laughs from the outside world
- Keep an eye on their well-being, ensuring they’re receiving the best possible care
- Lighten their mood and provide comfort, with just the power of your visit
All of these considerations play a part in a happy, healthy life. That’s why, knowing the importance of regular visits, your next step is to make a visitation schedule.
How to Make a Visitation Schedule
Creating a visitation schedule starts with an open, honest conversation with your parent. Make sure to set up a comfortable space, then ask them about their needs, preferences, and comfort levels.
Together, work out a plan that respects their wishes and fits your lifestyle. While some families may prefer visits a few times a week, others might prefer only 2 or 3 a month. There is no hard rule for visiting—the only thing that matters is that your plan suits all parties involved.
You’ll need to make sure to be adaptable. Life is unpredictable, and circumstances can change! Make sure to regularly review your plan, and don’t feel guilty if you or your parent need to reschedule.
Making the Most of Your Visits
The quality of your visits matters much more than the quantity. Try to make sure you’re prepared—this is the key to making the most of your visits.
Make a point of:
- Bringing a cheerful attitude to brighten your parent’s day
- Sharing a favorite book or movie to enjoy together
- Planning a fun activity or hobby that both of you can participate in
- Bringing along some photos or stories from recent events to spark conversations
- Asking for updates on their health and lifestyle, ensuring they’re comfortable
These can take pressure off your visit, making it much easier to enjoy the moment.
Planning Activities for Visiting a Parent in Senior Living
Skilled nursing communities don’t just provide quality care. They also offer a range of services and experiences designed to make every day unique.
Try checking the events calendar in your parent’s community. Keep an eye out for anything that interests your parent or yourself, and make a point to go together. These shared activities often include:
- Fitness programs
- Yoga classes
- Arts and crafts
- Hobby groups
- Game nights
There’s always something unique going on, so keep an eye out. Shared activities offer a fun, low-stress environment where you and your loved one can enjoy an afternoon together. It’s a simple way to make the most of your visit!
Your Loved One’s Future Home Awaits
The move to skilled nursing is a significant step, but it’s an incredible way to help a parent in need. With our help and your regular visits, your loved one can enjoy a life surrounded by love, warmth, and care.
In our community here at Inspired Living at Tampa, we take pride in offering compassionate, quality care to those in need. Our team is here to help you and your parent make the most of every day. Book a tour with us today—your loved one’s future home awaits.
